Are you training to win or training not to lose?
- Carrie Jackson

- 3 days ago
- 5 min read
Here's something nobody tells you when you sign up for your first race, gran fondo, or century ride: most of the time, things don't go according to plan. Not even close.
You put in the training blocks and dial in your nutrition, and then the day of your event arrives, and reality kicks in. Maybe you're fighting off a cold. Maybe your legs feel like concrete after the first climb. Maybe the doubts that were a quiet hum have now become the only thing you can hear.
The gap between expectation and reality can be disorienting, and if we don't have a framework for navigating it, it can rob us of our confidence, our joy, and our love for the sport.
The question isn't whether things will go sideways (they will), but what to do when they do.
Why failure hits differently when you're an athlete
For most riders, cycling isn't just something you do; it's part of how you define yourself. That identity is built through early mornings, hard intervals, and sacrifices most people in your life don't fully understand.
So when things go wrong and you see your goal starting to slip away, it doesn't feel like just a bad day, but a verdict on who you are.
That feeling is a trap. And athletes fall into it often, because the feedback in sport is so immediate and so measurable. Your power numbers. Your finish time. Your placing (even on Zwift or Strava). Sport has a way of making everything feel like a direct reflection of your worth. And when that reflection doesn't look the way we hoped, it's easy to draw the wrong conclusions.
This is exactly where mindset comes in.
Fixed mindset: Are you playing not to lose?
Stanford psychologist Carol Dweck has spent decades researching what separates people who thrive and grow from those who plateau. Her conclusion? It comes down to what we believe about our own abilities.
With a fixed mindset, we believe our talent and capabilities are essentially set. We're either good at something or we're not. Effort only matters if we're already talented enough for it to pay off. And failure? Failure is proof we don't have what it takes.
Here's what that looks like on the bike: You have a bad race and immediately start questioning whether you're cut out for this sport. You avoid events you're not sure you can finish well. You hesitate to be honest with your coach, because you don't want to look like you don't know what you're doing. You train hard. But underneath it all, there's a quiet fear driving you: the need to avoid looking like a failure.
It's the classic question: are you playing to win or playing not to lose?
Fixed mindset thinking is deeply human. It's a protective instinct. The problem is that it keeps us small. It keeps us from ever finding out what we're truly capable of.
What a growth mindset actually looks like in cycling
A growth mindset isn't about being relentlessly positive or pretending a bad ride didn't suck. It's not toxic positivity dressed up in sport psychology language.
A growth mindset means we believe our abilities can be developed through effort, smart training, and help from the right people. When we have a growth mindset, failure isn't a verdict, but data.
Here's what that looks like in practice: You have a bad race and you're disappointed. Genuinely, deeply disappointed. But after you've given yourself time to feel that, you get curious. What happened? What can you learn? What would you do differently? You sign up for the hard event even though you're not sure you're ready, because you know that's exactly how you find out what you're capable of. You ask your coach the uncomfortable questions, because you understand that's how you get better.
With a growth mindset, the goal shifts. We're no longer training to avoid failure; we're training to find our edge, accepting that failure is part of the strategy. We aren't defined by failure, but by our response to it.
Three shifts that make a real difference
Building a growth mindset isn't a one-time decision; it's a practice we repeat, especially in the hard moments. Here are three shifts I come back to most often with my athletes.
Notice the story you're telling yourself. Fixed mindset doesn't always announce itself; it shows up quietly in how we explain a bad race to ourselves, in the excuses we make for not signing up, in the voice that says we're just not built for this. When something goes wrong, what's the first thing you tell yourself? Is that story building you up or tearing you down?
Separate your performance from your identity. You are not your finish time or your power numbers. These are data points, not verdicts. When we tie our self-worth to outcomes, every setback becomes a threat to who we are. When we separate who we are from how we performed on a given day, we create room to improve and protect our relationship with the sport we love.
Get comfortable being a beginner. Growth requires doing things you're not good at yet, and that's uncomfortable, especially for athletes who are used to being competent. But choosing to stay in our comfort zone is fixed mindset in disguise. Lean into the discomfort. Growth does not happen without growing pains.
The choice we make when it gets hard
The next time a hard ride breaks you open, you have a choice: You can let it be evidence of what you lack or information about what you're building.
You signed up for this sport because some part of you wanted to find out what you're made of. That's an ongoing experiment, not a fixed answer, and every setback, every bad race, and every day your legs feel like concrete is part of the data. The athletes who grow aren't the ones who avoid those moments, but the ones who stop running from them.
This choice, made over and over again in training and in racing, is what growth mindset actually looks like in practice. It's not a personality trait, not a gift some athletes have and others don't. It's a decision. One you can make right now.
At BaseCamp, we believe that every cyclist has the potential to achieve greatness, no matter where they start. Our mission is to create a community-driven training environment where cyclists and triathletes of all levels can train together, support each other, and grow stronger, faster, and more confident in their abilities. Our cycling training programs are expert driven and tailored to your needs. Whether you're a seasoned pro or just getting started, BaseCamp is where you belong.

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